This is something we hear all too often, still, in 2013.
If you Google the words relegated to the friend zone, you will be inundated with results:
- How you can be friend zoned
- Why you might be friend zoned
- Who gets friend zoned (that's right, it even happens to women!)
With so many people offering their answers, why do some of us still end up falling into that dreaded category?
Surely this is a problem that can finally be put to rest, just by following a few simple steps in an online article?
Well, I'm here to tell you that you're going about it in the wrong way.
Yep, that's right, everything you thought you knew about the friend zone is wrong.
In fact, I would go so far as to tell you the friend zone is a myth. A misunderstanding or a misconception, if you will.
So if it isn't real, then how come you are "constantly relegated to the friend zone"? I'm sure you can reel off lists of reasons to justify why you think you have been friend zoned
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"But I've always treated her with nothing but respect. I comforted her when she was down, we hang out together all the time, we speak all the time... I even pay for her McDonald's sometimes. And then the next thing I know, she's going out with a guy who treats her badly. Of course I'm always there to offer a shoulder to cry on... but then that's all she wants. The nice guy who treats her right is put in the friend zone."
First of all, you need to get rid of the thought that there is such a thing as the "friend zone". Because you need to stop believing that before we get anywhere.
What you have to realise is that you need to stop thinking that the friend zone exists.
This is important because negativity will impact your actions... negatively.
By thinking that the friend zone is an option, you are on your way to being stuck there. You have almost auto-zoned. So stop thinking about the alleged "friend zone" right now and get on with seeing yourself as relationship-material.
Sounds easy? Try it for a while and come back when you're ready to find out the next real, life-changing techniques to be on your way to a whole new outlook.
First of all, you need to get rid of the thought that there is such a thing as the "friend zone". Because you need to stop believing that before we get anywhere.
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What you have to realise is that you need to stop thinking that the friend zone exists.
This is important because negativity will impact your actions... negatively.
By thinking that the friend zone is an option, you are on your way to being stuck there. You have almost auto-zoned. So stop thinking about the alleged "friend zone" right now and get on with seeing yourself as relationship-material.
Sounds easy? Try it for a while and come back when you're ready to find out the next real, life-changing techniques to be on your way to a whole new outlook.
