So, you are probably wondering why I am so adamant to tell you that there is no such thing as the "friend zone".
Before we get there I want you to think carefully about these 3 things:
- How long have you been friends?
- How long have you considered yourself in the "friend zone"?
- What have they done to make yourself feel "friend-zoned"?
Now, you may think this sounds ridiculous, but it's this kind of truth that gets results.
I'm telling you right now to assess your behaviour before we can go any further. You are the one in control of your actions, so be super-aware of them to make sure you can get what you want, and see where you're going wrong.
Once you realise the problem, you'll be kicking yourself because you didn't do anything about it earlier.
It's no secret but it's realistic.
This isn't a long process. We want progress and we want it quickly, right?
All I'm suggesting you do is take a step back from the pit of self-pity you've been wallowing in. There is no need to mope when you are in control of your own life!
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You can have your cake and eat it once you weigh up the pros and cons of your current dating techniques.
How much do you have in common?
How important is your friendship?
These are the sorts of questions you should be pondering. And once you have these answers, you aren't far away from never being friend zoned again. I can assure you!
